9 Reasons Someone Is Not Ready for a Relationship, Even If They Like You

9 Reasons Someone Is Not Ready for a Relationship, Even If They Like You

 

feelings are easy to catch it's the confessing ,committing and compromising…that requires the real work
you can meet someone any day be inspired by one another have fun together but not put label on anything

what's the deal with that anyway here are nine possible reasons someone is not ready for a relationship even if they like you

1        1. They're not completely over their ex




 they like and respect you which is why they don't want to get involved with you anytime soon, they just got out of a long-term relationship and it takes time to get over their ex



 it's not necessarily a reflection of who you are that keeps them from wanting to commit there's just a lot of emotional baggage they have to start through first ,before they can focus on just the two of you



2       2. Their job requires frequent traveling




are they constantly on the go can they even handle a long term relationship ,these are questions to

carefully consider when you like someone



if you're especially the type of person to crave stability and would like to build a solid relationship it's no wonder they're not ready to establish anything serious with you



 they're aware that they aren't always going to be in a single setting for too long but they appreciate the connection the both of you made or they may not get too attached to you in the first place because it'll be painful for them when they leave.



3       3. Their values don't align with yours




maybe you feel like you'll never find someone quite like them, they share the same taste in music as you you know how to finish each other's sentences and sharing dessert is always a treat with them but that's not necessarily soul mate material .



deeper values may clash maybe you don't want kids maybe they do or you see yourself living in the big city but they want a quiet life in the suburbs



it's these differences that will test whether you two can establish a long-term relationship.



        4. Their in a super stressful time




they might be juggling loss like family death or unemployment or they could be experiencing the opposite whether working too much and can't carve out time to be with you consistently .



in this case they have so much going on that the idea of dating seems nearly impossible it would be more of a burden to their health and your own instead of benefiting both sides

5    5.  They're still trying to discover who they are




starting a relationship means taking on more responsibility if they have plans to relocate for their dream job or would like to date casually instead of seriously let them because trying to persuade or chase them will only leave you empty-handed ,disappointed and hurt .



evaluate why you feel a need to possess or control and ask yourself : if that's how you want to treat a potential partner ?



6    6.  They have commitment phobia




this can stem from past trauma such as a former toxic relationship establishing trust is something they're still learning so seeking a relationship this very moment seems out of the question



 instead of making them more anxious ,encourage them and let them know you're not here to play mind games ultimately though



it's up to them to either accept or reject your invitations



      7. They aren't happy with themselves




do they struggle with low self-esteem ,pessimism or depression ?



realize that battling these inner demons can be taxing and respect their need for Space



 the healthier a person feels the better equipped they are to enter a relationship ,when unhappiness is a constant struggle it can cause them to view relationships in a very black-and-white good or bad manner which can create communication problems



          8. They aren't in a place to compromise right now




most of these reasons have focused on difficulties but maybe everything is actually going super well for them ,they've been content with their self journey and have a lot of plans to continue growing alone there's nothing wrong with that if they aren't in a mindset to settle down with someone that's ok



         9. They like you but aren't falling in love with you



so the two of you are getting closer but are their feelings actually deepening for you ?

although the best relationships have a strong friendship ,sometimes that person might only see you as a friend without the romantic attraction


unrequited love is hard to handle but thank them for their time and realize you still have a whole life ahead of you.


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